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Post by PyroBowie on Jul 23, 2008 12:49:44 GMT
Feel free to be as honest as anything...I couldn't care right now.
Basically...was out on the razzle last night. Me, Miss Y, Mr X, Miss Bojangle (names protected...obv.) We were all quite drunk...for some reason, I kissed Miss Bojangle (lololololol I is straight). But yeah...it was only a jokey type thing...Miss Y and Mr X ended up kissing too. Now for Mr X I think he was just messing around, but I think Miss Y actually wanted it.
Anyway...forward to today...Mr X asked me if he kissed anyone...I told him. He then asked why I didn't stop him from doing it, he might've been joking...couldn't tell. He did say "lmao" after...lol.
But yeah...he's told his boyfriend about it, and he's apparently stopped talking to him, which is getting to him. And now he ain't talking to me, and I feel to blame partially, and it's annoying me I can't help, and am just being shut out =\.
So...feel a bit/a lot shite about that. Also, had my own problems to deal with last night, which didn't help the way I was. Ended up in tears on a park bench (what can I say...I'm classy lol).
This week has been shite...have a feeling it'll stay shite throughout too.
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Post by becca on Jul 23, 2008 16:16:41 GMT
ah, you gays are just very friendly heheh... we used to drunkenly and in a jokey way kiss our gay friends... stopped when they got into relationships though... but it sounds like you did nothing wrong? If your friend kissed someone else while he's in a relationship then it's on his head, he is the one to blame, regardless of whether Miss X wanted it to happen or not (unless she forced herself on him of course!) but at the end of the day, if it was just a harmless kiss, I'm sure Mr X and his b/f will work it out in no time : ) edit: ffs WHOSE idea was it to make waving smiley man a substitute for colon close brackets? argh!
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Post by ludicrouslouisa on Jul 24, 2008 12:50:19 GMT
That sounds convoluted and annoying! It don't sound like it was your fault either...and yes, it was obvious that Mr X didn't actually feel romantic and o cheaty about the kiss...so hopefully he and his Bf resolve it...
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Post by swindonforever on Jul 24, 2008 14:10:07 GMT
although question for the ladies really if a fella you were with kissed some girl and said it didnt matter 'cos it wasnt romantic and they didnt fancy them would you be ok with it?
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Post by Rach on Jul 24, 2008 14:11:01 GMT
NO!
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Post by swindonforever on Jul 24, 2008 14:18:04 GMT
exactly
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Post by Ben on Jul 24, 2008 14:19:29 GMT
I'd be ok with it if a girl I was with kissed another girl... In fact, I'm borderline actively encouraging it...
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Post by [Ghost] on Jul 24, 2008 17:27:24 GMT
I'd be ok with it if a girl I was with kissed another girl... In fact, I'm borderline actively encouraging it... LOL.
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Post by bigospedros on Jul 24, 2008 18:31:17 GMT
I'd be ok with it if a girl I was with kissed another girl... In fact, I'm borderline actively encouraging it... I heard that Rach was actively encouraging you to kiss another bloke Rumours were that you were very keen too
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Post by johnny on Jul 24, 2008 19:38:11 GMT
Ahhh I remember the days when we'd all go out, get drunk and end up making out with various friends in our group. Good times man.
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Post by ludicrouslouisa on Jul 24, 2008 21:11:59 GMT
Well the thing is...Craig, considering that Mr X is GAY, he won't be attracted to a girl so it's not like he's cheating on his girlfriend by snogging her. Girls, if your boyfriend snogged another boy, what would you do? Freak out? Or think it was really funny?
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Post by alyssa :) on Jul 24, 2008 21:19:25 GMT
Well the thing is...Craig, considering that Mr X is GAY, he won't be attracted to a girl so it's not like he's cheating on his girlfriend by snogging her. Girls, if your boyfriend snogged another boy, what would you do? Freak out? Or think it was really funny? admittedly, think it was funny
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Post by Chloe on Jul 24, 2008 21:23:26 GMT
Well the thing is...Craig, considering that Mr X is GAY, he won't be attracted to a girl so it's not like he's cheating on his girlfriend by snogging her. Girls, if your boyfriend snogged another boy, what would you do? Freak out? Or think it was really funny? probably be quite annoyed/freaked out tbh. but then i've never been into the whole snogging your mates type thing, even as a teenager.
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Post by ludicrouslouisa on Jul 25, 2008 11:07:36 GMT
Well the thing with...being a teenager, especially now, is that people are more "bicurious" than they used to be - whether that's just put on because it's the in thing, or whether people just feel more comfortable playing around with their sexuality..I don't know. Actually, I haven't kissed ANYONE, not even my best mate, who's offered She's not ugly or anything, it'd just be really really weird! I've known her since kindergarten! And I am possibly the worst person for relationship advice ever considering I have like...0.2 chance of ever being in a relationship by the way things are going.
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